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Hey, this is kinda pretty. And it's even in my kitchen! It also came from the Schwan's freezer truck. I know what time it is.

As a female blogger, I feel the pressure quite often to take gorgeous photographs of food that I’ve made myself. Here’s the deal: I cannot make pretty food.

I actually find myself unfollowing foodie Pinterest boards because they make my feed look like the Boulevard of Broken Dreams. There are many reasons you won’t see pretty food photos here:

I have an extremely tiny kitchen. I live in a condominium with a very small kitchen space. It’s about the width of a hallway and the length of four upright refrigerators. Counter space is rarely available. There’s no room for prepping, or getting bags of chips or toaster cords out of the way to take any photos.

A hot dog, sitting on Fiestaware. On the stove, because the stove is the only counter space.  I guess the hot dog doesn't look bad, but can you really screw up a hot dog?

A hot dog, sitting on Fiestaware. On the stove, because the stove is the only counter space. I guess the hot dog doesn’t look bad, but can you really screw up a hot dog?

There’s very little natural light in my home. Yes, I know photos are taken best in natural light; unfortunately there are no windows in the kitchen. We have a backyard that I’ve used to take jewelry photos, but I really am not interested in getting a bunch of ingredients out in the same place where my dog frolicks and gets stinky. Drink recipes? Maybe! Oh, and you can forget about me getting a lamp or other extra lighting. Where’s it going to go?

I simply cannot make food attractive. Believe me, I’ve tried. And every time I have failed miserably. When I frost cupcakes, they look the same as I did when I was four.


My cupcakes. I know you wouldn’t buy these at a bakery! (Know what, though? They sure were tasty.)

My parents did not make food attractive. Dad did most of the cooking, and it was for function. He made great stuff – wow, his Moo Goo Gai Pan was amazing! But there was really no need to make food attractive. If we entertained, we got cheese and fruit platters from the store. Meanwhile, when mom made a cake, she baked it in her trusty cake pan that she probably got when she was married. It would come out frosted like a four-year-old, and usually with those candy letters on it. You think my mom actually wrote on cakes? No way.

Hey, this is kinda pretty. And it's even in my kitchen! It also came from the Schwan's freezer truck. I know what time it is.

Hey, these chicken enchiladas are kinda pretty. And it’s even in my kitchen! It also came from the Schwan’s freezer truck. I know what time it is.

I am a caregiver who doesn’t have time to learn to make pretty food. The deal with being an unpaid caregiver is that you have to make an income somehow, so while juggling your patient’s health along with two or three jobs, there isn’t time to learn frosting or piping or how to properly use Pampered Chef products. Also, my mother is really tired from dialysis and all she wants is something that is ready-made for her. We are very thankful for the frozen food aisles at the grocery stores.

Hey, here are some pretty cupcakes. Made by someone else. From Eleven, the restaurant at the Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art in Bentonville, Arkansas.

Hey, here are some pretty cupcakes. Made by someone else. From Eleven, the restaurant at the Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art in Bentonville, Arkansas.

If you are able to create those beautiful photographs of food, use your photo editing software to make them look good enough for Southern Living, understand that you have my utmost admiration. But that’s not me.

You’ll see my life. You’ll see photos. Many of my dog. But if you see pretty food, you can guarantee it was made by someone else. Here’s to the food and recipe bloggers who are amazing at what they do.

Right now my main concern is trying to figure out how to take photos of my black dog. That is a task in and of itself!

Is my dog black and white, or is he gold and blue?

Is my dog black and white, or is he gold and blue?


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YAY, it’s time for yet another giveaway! This $25 Gift Card to Old Navy has been with me for way too long, so it’s time to declutter and pass it along to one lucky reader! I’ve joined up with 18 other bloggers in the Lucky March Hop, organized by LeahSay’s Views and Planet Weidnecht.

You can also use this $25 gift card at Gap, Banana Republic, Piperlime and Athleta. After I draw a winner, I’ll send a verification email, the winner has 48 hours to respond, and I’ll email the winner the gift card number and the reference number!

Don’t forget to check out these other bloggers who are participating and giving away fabulous prizes, and then scroll down for my giveaway form:

And here you go! Good luck and I hope you win! $25 Gap-Old Navy-Banana Republic-Piperlime-Athleta Giveaway


Bye, winter skin! Rosehip Oil saves the day!

I was given product in exchange for an honest review.

Every winter, we at the Bellesouth household are plagued with horrible, flaky, dry skin. It’s awful, and no one is safe. Me, mom and the dog. We all start itching like crazy, scratching like crazy, and being driven crazy. Add my mom’s need to limit liquids as a dialysis patient, as well as her recent bout with digestive troubles, and it only gets worse!

But enter Majestic Pure Rosehip Oil. It comes in a whopping 4-oz bottle, and is absolutely AMAZING for treating that winter dryness. My first use of it was when I saw my poor mom using her bathrobe to scratch her back a few weeks ago. I first started scratching her back with my fingernails, then I realized I could be doing more harm than good; as scratching can lead to bloodletting.

So I went and grabbed this Rosehip Oil, put a few drops on her back and rubbed it in. Mom, who already takes prescription drugs for her itching, said it was extremely soothing, and that it really helped her itchy skin. Winter + Diabetes + Renal Disease just makes for misery, and this stuff is great. I also used it on her very dry elbows!

As for me, I have started using it on my nails, since I haven’t been able to get my nails done in several weeks. In spite of all the dishwashing, can opening and typing I’ve done, my nails have stayed pretty strong. I’m not sure if the oil has helped it, but they definitely don’t get soft after a bath anymore!

One thing I would really love to try is using rosehip oil as a scalp treatment. I’ve read that it works wonders for dry scalp (another condition mom and I suffer during the winter), and all you have to do is let it sit in your hair for 30 minutes before rinsing it out. Have any of you tried this?

Major Rosehip Oil turnoff: The smell. There’s just something… off about the scent. I was expecting it to smell like roses since, hey, rosehip – but, naah. The good thing is that Rosehip is used as a carrier oil, so you can mix it with your favorite scented essential oils to make something that softens your skin and smells good!!

You can purchase Majestic Pure Rosehip Oil here.

Do you have any suggestions for Rosehip oil?


Hey, y’all! Another giveaway to get you through the week! This week has been looking up for me; caregiver duties are reducing now that Mom is getting better, and the snow is gone so the cabin fever is gone as well! We’re all happy – especially the dog! Here you go, and as always, good luck and I hope you win!!



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With the weather being so cold outside, many of us are snuggled in our blankets and enjoying a nice hot drink. If you are anything like us, it means you are sitting with your laptop enjoying your favorite blogs between bouts of Pinterest mania. As a thank you to our loyal readers, a bunch of us bloggers got together and created this super cool giveaway! Unlike traditional giveaways, this one contains no follow pages, likes or follows – just good old fashioned comments! In other words, we want your thoughts and to see what stuff you like the most on our blogs.

Each of the entries are either a daily comment on a blog, or a single one-time comment. We tried keeping it as easy as possible so that you can sit back and relax while trying to win some extra spending money. So, what is the prize? Well, someone is going to walk away with a $100 Amazon Gift Card or cash through Paypal – your choice!

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