MMO Gaming Addiction – Step away from the screen!

by Mac Laton – guest contributor

free_to_play_mmo_addict Yesterday I killed a character in a video game.  This was not just any character.  It was my character, an evil robot named KarboN from a silly space ship game that I play for free online.

I have played this game on a daily basis for over 2 and 1/2 years with very few exceptions, usually family emergencies that required me to be somewhere where there was no internet connection.  I was one of the top players in this online game.

What kind of game was this that required my daily attention ?  This type of gaming that I was participating is called a MMO or Massivley Multiplayer Online game.

This type of video gaming consists of players logging into a common server to participate in real time video games.  These servers contain continuous virtual worlds where the players interact with each other and can talk through in-game chat systems.  Players real world identities are also hidden behind an avatar called a “toon” that a player selects, customizes, and names them self.

A player can choose to play on their server as a solo player or in groups of players called clans.  Most games label clans by different names such as wings, corps, guilds, etc.  Playing in a clan is usually a much more productive style of play because you can organize activities and tackle difficult tasks as a team.  A solo player splits none of his rewards with others, a clan divides up their rewards benefiting the group as a whole.

There are two business models these type games operate under.  The paid subscription model works by requiring a monthly fee to be paid to play that can be waived if a player makes a large amount of in game currency.  This keeps some players working hard in the game so they can play for free.  WoW (World of Warcraft) and EVE online use this model.

The free to play model works by using micro transactions to pay for items in the game.  These items can be earned by working in game or “grinding” for in game currency but it takes up a lot of time to be able to earn these types of items as opposed to buying them outright.  The free to play model was the type I happened to play.

Grinding for online currency usually involves mining for resources and playing against NPC (non player characters) along with doing assignments called “dailies” to make in game currency.  This is tedious and time consuming.

The main objective for a player in any of these games is to become good at PvP (player versus player).  PvP is the most challenging and most rewarding aspect of these games because you get to test your skills against other real people in real time.  This becomes extra fun when you do it as a group with your clan. It is addicting, literally.

This is also where the free to play games make most of their money.

addictive pvp gaming When you are beaten badly at PvP because your character (called a toon) is not equipped as well as your opponent, it is impossible to go out and grind out some better gear.  You can however become a “wallet warrior” and whip out your credit card to level up your toon and return to the arena to win.

You then look at the social aspect of the game, you have real world group dynamics going on.  Players become friends and help each other or become enemies that hate each other.  They try to impress their clan mates and get embarrassed by their enemies.  Some want to become great leaders, some want to be the best gladiators.  No matter what the motivations may be, it is the social interaction of PvP playing that makes the game provider the largest amounts of revenue.

In the game I played I saw this taken to extremes several times.  A friend of mine spent his rent money on special in game chat messages when he was having a public argument that lasted several hours.  I saw another player drop almost 40k (yes that’s right, forty thousand dollars people) when she was really jealous of two other player’s relationship.  People try to impress each other romantically, or just try to prove what a bad-ass they are.  Mixed in with these social interactions are little financial transactions.

Sometimes these free to play online games become a real problem for a player.  They spend too much money on micro transactions and mess up their finances. In order to not spend money they become “grinders” who spend all of their free time doing mundane in game tasks trying to earn in game currency.  This messes up their family and social lives.

The more time or money that is spent by a player, they become more and more invested in their character.  You get burnt out but you don’t want to leave because you have social interaction in the game and have let it suffer everywhere else.

This is where I was at until yesterday.  Just really burned out on playing but continuing to do so any way.

Fortunately, it was not anything bad in my life that caused me to kill off my toon.  It was in fact something really wonderful.

I had been single for the past four years after going through a terrible divorce.  I found someone I knew I wanted to build an incredibly strong relationship with.  I also knew that this type of gaming could be a harmful distraction in that building process.

I took responsibility and cut this game out of my life.

Killing off an online gaming character is quite easy and has no withdrawal symptoms when done correctly.

First, you go to the games forum site an post a nice message to say farewell to your friends.  You can even leave a forwarding address where they can get up with you in the real world.  Here is mine:

Next you change your password for the gaming account to something you can’t remember.  I did this by typing out about 20 random characters then copying and pasting into the form fields.  Then hit save changes.

You then just click the confirmation link and you are done.  Locked out in a pretty much permanent way.

I’m looking forward to taking on some real world responsibility and building a really wonderful real world relationship.

I know it is going to be way more fun than building a ship in a video game.

I’m stepping away from the screen, and you know what?  It feels great.

If life is a game, I am playing to win.

Here are some resources on gaming addiction:

WebMD: Video game addiction no fun

On-Line Gamers Anonymous

CNN: 5 Warning signs of gaming addiction

Don’t be shy, leave a comment.

-Mac Laton

Mike and Ike’s Cherri and Bubb, Lem and Mel make limited return to store shelves

IMG_20130220_130258 Cherri and Bubb. Oh, the memories. Cherri and Bubb remind me of my teenage years, when I wore all black, blasted Nine Inch Nails on the boombox and drove my mother crazy. Those were the days.

So when I found a UPS box at my front door, opened it up and found boxes of Cherri and Bubb inside, I squealed with excitement! And then I wrote some really awful poetry in my diary.

Cherri and Bubb join Lem and Mel are back on the shelves through the end of April 2013. Lem and Mel is a combination of Lemon and Watermelon flavors, but to me, Cherri and Bubb will always hold a place in my heart.

The flavors are available in 5-oz. boxes and are between $1 and $1.39.

I got some info on the return of these duly-missed flavors. “We are very excited to bring back CHERRI AND BUBB and LEM AND MEL,” said Donald Houston, Senior Marketing Manager for Mike and Ike. “We hope this will inspire good memories from our loyal fans and produce a new group of Mike and Ike lovers to these favorites from the past. Perhaps this might even inspire Mike and Ike to rekindle their friendship and business relationship.”

Whoah-OH! Yes! Mike and Ike split up last spring to “follow their true passions,” according to a press release from Mike and Ike representatives. “Mike is a musician at heart and produced a music video; Ike is an urban artist and a lover of art,” according to the press release.

The split also garnered celebrity reactions. Check out this news report:

Other flavors from Mike and Ike, including Original Fruits, Tropical Typhoon, Berry Blast and RedRageous!, will continue to be available. Meanwhile, representatives from Mike and Ike are hoping for a reunion. “People of all ages love Mike and Ike and we are reassuring fans and our retail partners that our famous fruit-chewy candies will continue to be produced and sold as we get this resolved,” Houston said.

For more information on the Mike and Ike split, visit them at:

I was given free product from Mike and Ike for this review. All opinions are my own unless otherwise indicated.

Why I’m not going out tonight

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Because they don’t make a coin bank big enough that says “I’m saving up to pay off my student loan!”

Hope you guys are enjoying your weekend!

Avengers Date Night! #MarvelAvengersWMT #CBias

We are Iron Man.

Jeff and I saw The Avengers on our first date. So we eagerly jumped at the opportunity to mark the occasion by having a special Avengers-themed pizza-and-a-movie night.

That required a trip to Walmart, lots of photo-taking and a whole lotta laughs.

We scoped out the store all over the place, and with the help of The Avengers Augmented Reality App, our experience in shopping was interactive and fun.

I even got my photo taken with Thor! He just magically appeared in the frame with me! Captain America managed to get his head and left shoulder in there, too.

You can use the app to play games, but also to scan over Walmart-exclusive items to see cool action, and also to take fun photos like this one.

Just download the app (called Superhero AR in the Android Marketplace), follow the instructions in the app to get your interactive experience on, and have fun! There are trigger points located throughout the store where you can do lots of cool things and make it a great date or family outing.
For $24.95, you can get an Exclusive Blu-Ray/DVD/Novel Combo Pack at Walmart. You also get extra commentaries, behind-the-scenes specials, and even a code to get a free digital comic book AND a free Marvel poster.

This item is available exclusively at Walmart, and at $24.95, it’s an incredible value!

The exclusive combo pack comes in a RED cardboard package and has a Walmart sticker in the middle.

Be on the lookout for it in DVD displays throughout the store!

You will not find this item anywhere else, and it’s available only for a limited time – so especially if you’re a collector, you won’t want to miss out on grabbing this one.

In the Walmart Deli section, you’ll also find special Avengers-themed Marketside pizzas. There are four different flavors and they’re all in Extra-Large size for a special family event!

Here’s Jeff enjoying his Thor Ultimate Meat Pizza:

For more fun pictures of our adventure, check out my Google+ album here. And be sure to visit Marvel.Com, follow Marvel on Twitter and like Marvel on Facebook!

I am a member of the Collective Bias™ Social Fabric® Community.  This content has been compensated as part of a social shopper insights study for Collective Bias™ and Marvel. All opinions are my own. #MarvelAvengersWMT #CBias #SocialFabric


I’m busy, so here’s a guy cursing at Super Mario Brothers

What a week, what a week! I’ve been earnin’ money elsewhere  trying out products, housesitting, PR-working, interviewing and emailing. And also taking at least two Vanquish a day.

So tonight I watched this and I laughed and cried and laughed and cried some more.

This vid is like five years old and has apparently just become viral. Language is not safe for work. You can’t listen to it for 20 seconds without hearing cursing. Anyway, it’s one of the most hilarious things I’ve ever seen.

This is not from the original Super Mario Brothers. This is from what was released as the sequel to SMB in Japan (see artwork above) and is said to be developed by “Satan Himself,” which is why the American Super Mario Brothers 2 looks absolutely nothing like its predecessors or its sequels. It was released in the U.S. as part of the Super Mario All-Stars package as “Super Mario Brothers: The Lost Levels.” More info on Wikipedia.

Thanks to my buddy Farrell for showing this to me tonight. I needed a laugh after this excruciatingly busy and stressful week!

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